making that FIRST MOVE minus the embarassment

In case u forgot,we`re in the 21st century.And wut does dats mean?As far as girl-guy interaction goes,it means good news - u dont hav to wait for the guys to initiate contact.You can now bridge that distance,witout feeling awkward.


STATE OF MIND
Be calm ,casual and natural.There's nuthin to b nervous about.Bear in mind that u're here to know her as a friend first.It's best u dunt expect anythin to come out of dat first control.The idea is to get acquinted.

FIRST STEP FORWARD
Approach him in the most relaxed manner,like how u would a friend.Of course,a smile helps to not only calm u down.But to also let him knoe dat he's being acknowledge.

BREAKING THE ICE
Start wit a "hi" or ur fav greeting,followed by a conversation.Like "how was ur weekand".The way to not get tongue-tied is to keep ur brains active.Think about the topic ur're on.And the words will flow.One more thing - keep in distance.You wont want to freak him out by standing too close.It's important u mind ur body language.

ONE STEP MORE
What's next ?Ask him if he'd like to join u and ur friends for an outing,which can b as simple lunch .To make it less awkward the first few times,hang out in a group .He's free to call his friends along too.That keeps the pressure off the both of u.After all,the idea is to get to know each other as friends.

ON UR OWN
When u feel like hanging out wit him on a one-to-one basis,go ahead and invite him .Keep it casual still.Its how u ask.Don't fidget or stutter ur way around.Ask wit a cheery smile and voice."Hey,intersted in catching a movie?" Or "I need a break from books.Want to get some coffee?"